Soft Masculinity, Couples Therapy, Being a Crip Killjoy

And other random, not fully-formed thoughts

Hello dear ones,

I was struggling to write this week’s newsletter because I do not have a cohesive essay within me. Too many things are gooey for me right now. I feel mushy, tender, uncrystallized. So I offer up these fragments, a series of random thoughts and feelings that have been present for me lately.

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